All parents want to teach their children some positive moral values that would make them better and more successful people when they grow up. When it comes to this, it is important that parents are aware they have to start with themselves and be a great role model for their kids. With a positive attitude and behavior, parents will definitely be able to gradually teach their kids lessons that will be a part of their personality for life.
Selflessness and Generosity
No one can expect their children to become selfless people who are able to willingly share their stuff and most importantly, possess love and compassion, if those kids do not witness this kind of behavior in their home environment. Moreover, it is essential to make the child aware of his/her hurtful actions when being selfish without yelling and punishing. This approach can only cause the opposite effect.
Parents should aim to show their kids what it feels like to help someone and offer any kind of assistance that is possible and when kids themselves realize how great it is to be there for someone and even give their old belongings to someone in need, they will try to repeat this behavior again on their own.
Being Polite and Respectful
This is a quality that not many adults are skilled at, unfortunately. New parents need to comprehend that their children are there to make the world a better place and they can start this by teaching their kids how to be polite and kind to others. Again, children copy things they see that their parents do and if the parents are able to behave properly it is likely that their children will be able to do that as well.
Teaching a child to be polite can start with simple things such as saying thank you or sorry and knowing what it means to behave nicely when sitting at a table or as a guest and only later, when the child is a bit older, does it have to incorporate respect and kindness towards other people.
Losing with Dignity
Children love to compete in games and it is not unknown that some kids start screaming and crying when they lose, sometimes even starting a fight with other children. This has to be avoided if parents want their child to be able to cope with life properly as adults and have the strength to overcome any difficulty that life may present them.
Talk to your child about the importance of playing and not winning at all costs and being happy for friends when they win something. Moreover, playing online games with no obvious opponent can strengthen a childâ€™s personality and attitude to losing and accepting defeat as something that can happen from time to time which is not that big of a deal.
Teach Kids to be True to Themselves
When kids are still young, it is a good idea to present them with different hobbies and pastime options. By having fun with art, biology or logic stimulation with math games, kids are bound to find something they love to do later on and this can turn into an interest that will not only be able improve cognitive development and school performance but instill a faith in a child to pursue different things in life they are good at as a possible career choice as well. This does not mean that they will definitely become artists if they like drawing or writers if they like reading, but if they feel the parentsâ€™ support with hobbies, they will find it easier to openly say what it is that they would like to do in life.
Teaching a child important lessons about life is not a hard job that would require hours of additional time. If you as a parent behave the way you would like your child to behave, teaching is already half done.
Author BIO:Â Sophia Smith is a freelance writer from Brisbane, Australia with huge interest in beauty, DIY projects and personal development. She writes mostly in beauty and lifestyle related topics, mainly through blogs and articles. Sophia is regular contributor at High Style Life.Â Find her on: Facebook, TwitterÂ &Â Google +