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Tips for Combatting Burnout as a Dad

As a working dad, it can often feel like you’re juggling a dozen different things at once. You’re likely facing stress from every aspect of life, from keeping a steady job to making time for your kids and hobbies, to trying to maintain a social life.

Whew – even listing those things can feel exhausting!

It should come as no surprise, then, that being spread too thin can lead to burnout and exhaustion. That can make it difficult to be present and enjoy your life. If you’re not sure what burnout is, it’s a reaction to prolonged stress. While it’s mostly referred to when it comes to the working world, it can occur due to other stressors in life, too, contributing to everything from gastrointestinal issues to feelings of depression and worthlessness.  

So, what can you do to combat burnout as a dad? How can you juggle it all, stay energised, and enjoy some of the things that make life seem so busy at times? Let’s cover a few helpful tips that will make it easier to manage your stress. 

Manage Stress at Work 

Your job can have a major impact on your mental health. In 2021, the number of cases of work-related stress, depression, or anxiety was 822,000. Workplace stress can lead to problems like: 

  • Fatigue
  • Muscle pain
  • Headaches
  • Trouble sleeping
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Low productivity

Obviously, it can also lead to burnout, especially if you’re working long hours and you don’t feel like you have a healthy work-life balance to spend time with your children. If possible, take on less work. Maybe it’s time to look for a different career path or turn that side hustle into a full-time job

If that isn’t possible and you want to continue with your current job, it’s important to learn how to manage your stress levels. Make sure you’re establishing boundaries. Don’t work more hours than necessary, learn how to say “no,” and don’t take your work home with you. Take the time to recharge, and don’t be afraid to talk to your employer or supervisor if you’re struggling. 

It’s also a good idea to consider practising mindfulness. If you’re feeling overwhelmed throughout the work day, take a few minutes to close your eyes, focus on your breathing, and remain in the present moment, rather than worrying about the “what ifs” or all of the tasks you need to complete. Just a few minutes of mindfulness each day can help to relax you and keep you focused. 

Keep Your Finances in Order

Every parent knows that children are expensive, and when you’re a single dad in a single-income household, it’s important to have a budget in place that won’t contribute to your stress levels. 

If you’ve recently bought a new home or vehicle to accommodate your growing family, it can quickly feel overwhelming when you’re struggling to keep up with household expenses and everything your kids need. 

While having a budget in place is important, you don’t need to burn yourself out by working more or stressing over numbers. Instead, reach out for help when it comes to managing debt. For automotive debt, in particular, there are things like refinancing or setting up autopay for monthly payments that can make it easier to manage things without feeling overwhelmed. 

You shouldn’t have to stress yourself out too much over making sure your children have what they need. By focusing on your finances, creating a clear budget, and managing your debts appropriately, you can live comfortably without having to worry about where every paycheck is going or whether it will be enough. 

Practise Self-Care

When you have children, your natural instinct is to put them first no matter what. However, you can’t care for your kids the way you want to when you’re burnt out and exhausted. 

It’s essential to make time for yourself and to practise self-care as much as possible. It isn’t selfish – it’s necessary. 

Self-care looks different for everyone, but it’s important to understand that it doesn’t have to be something extravagant. Some of the best ways to take care of yourself each day include: 

  • Exercising
  • Cooking a healthy meal
  • Journaling
  • Prioritising sleep

All of these things can be wonderful options for keeping your mental and physical well-being in a good place. However, if you’re already feeling overwhelmed or like you don’t have time for self-care, do something else for yourself – ask for help! 

As the old saying goes, it takes a village to raise a child. Lean on your village. Lean on your support system. If you need help running errands or someone to watch the children for a few hours, ask the people in your inner circle. Even if you just need to take some time off to relax and recharge, friends and family can help. 

Being a father is the most rewarding job in the world, but it can also be overwhelming at times. Don’t let the work you put into it cause you to burn out. Take these tips into consideration to combat burnout, and you’ll enjoy more energy and more present moments with your children.